A super duper quick post tonight, as I have had too many windows open on my PC and need to shut it down to give my PC a break…not to mention install some updates. Before I shut my PC down tonight I need to briefly jump onto my soapbox and put my thoughts out into cyberspace about not making assumptions and not judging books by their covers. These 2 thoughts combined and in the context of new mothers produces the following:
Don’t assume that a new mom wearing makeup and a smile is happy.
How would you know better, then, you ask? Well, the only way you’re going to know for sure is if you care enough to ask how a new mom is doing. Take the time to have a chat with her and show you care. Look into her eyes when speaking. Being the empath that I am, I can usually sense when something is a bit off with someone. But I would most certainly confirm what my gut is telling me by talking to them.
I’ve also blogged about this previously (click here to read), but I do want to make sure you go over to Eve Canavan’s blog Small Time Mum and check out her blog post titled “You Can’t Be Depressed Dear, the Forestry Commission Don’t Have to Be Called to Trim Your Bush.” It’s a great post.
So, just because she (a new mom) doesn’t look depressed does NOT mean she is NOT depressed, and the only way you’re going to know is if you stop and ask how she’s doing and look her in the eyes.