A brief post from me today, as it’s almost the end of April and I promised (for Amber) I would post at least once monthly for a year starting last October. Of course, I always start off saying it will be brief, but by the time I’m through, it’s not the short post I thought I was going to write, lol! Once I get my thoughts going, I could go on and on!
I’ve watched The Good Doctor since ep 1, and have absolutely LOVED the show for the way it’s written, cast, and directed. I was thrilled when doulas got a shout-out in a recent episode! I saw this on my Facebook feed a few days ago from a post by Raising Flowers Birth Services in Utah, which gave me the idea to blog about this. I bet more than half the people who watched the ep were like, hmmmm, what are doulas? I’ve mentioned them a bunch of times in my blog, but did blog about doulas specifically here.
I just wish they would do a show on postpartum mood disorders, as we desperately need a primetime TV show brave enough to get the message out that postpartum mood disorders are experienced by mothers (1 out of 7 in this country), and yet how all too often cases are missed, misdiagnosed, mistreated and have potentially fatal consequences for the mother and/or baby. I wish I could get a hold of Daniel Dae Kim on this (I did message him on Facebook yesterday but don’t expect a response), since he is a producer of the show, to see if he can work with Postpartum Support International. I don’t recall a primetime TV show ever having had postpartum mood disorders a focus of an episode. There might have been a shout-out or two or three these past years, but either I missed them or they were not substantive enough for me to recall.
Over the past few years, depression has been getting more attention, since Chicago Med and New Amsterdam have a mental healthcare practitioner on staff and they do have almost weekly examples of someone needing help from them. It’s a tremendous step in the right direction, and I am forever grateful. But…..WE NEED A POSTPARTUM MOOD DISORDER EPISODE!
Please, please, please, producers/directors of Chicago Med, New Amsterdam, Good Doctor….doesn’t matter which show. Please consider the importance of getting the message out because mothers around the country (and world, actually) are suffering and the public needs awareness about it because of the popular belief that, once people hear after a child is born that “mother and baby are doing well,” then all must be hunky dory and let’s all just focus on the baby. But…the baby will not thrive well UNLESS THE NEW MOTHER IS TRULY OKAY. And too many mothers suffer needlessly and painfully when they develop a postpartum mood disorder from out of the blue. Too many mothers feel shame because they don’t want others to know they can’t feel the joy that they “should” be feeling after the birth of their babies. The experience causes unnecessary feelings of despair and hopelessness, as what happened to me back in 2005. I got slammed with PPD from out of the blue. One day I was fine, the next day I wasn’t sleeping or eating, lost all my pregnancy weight and more in a few days, had anxiety attacks morning and night, and I thought I was not going to make it.
I would provide sample links to re-highlight why postpartum mood disorders like postpartum depression (PPD), postpartum anxiety, postpartum obsessive compulsive disorder, and postpartum psychosis are missed, misdiagnosed, mistreated and have potentially fatal consequences for the mother and/or baby, but I would be providing almost every link to every blog post I’ve ever written since 2009. And that’s an awful lot.