*** This post may be triggering if you are suffering from postpartum depression (PPD) and are sensitive to negative news events***
Here I am, posting again….wow, it’s now 3x in one month. I haven’t posted with such frequency in a long time. Guess you can say the state of this country is heavy on my mind. I had said in my last post that I wasn’t going to talk politics since this site is dedicated to maternal mental health. I was planning to stick to that guideline. But then I hit a snag in my plans, thanks to a post I read about Bannon, the individual that Trump has selected to be his chief strategist. Bannon made a comment about mental health that triggered me so much it had me flashing back to the trigger that set me off on a 6-year journey to publish a book about my postpartum depression (PPD) experience. What trigger is that? Well, if you’ve been following my blog for some time and/or you read my author bio, you would know that Tom Cruise and his There’s no such thing as a chemical imbalance comment triggered me back in 2005. But the outcome of the trigger was good, as I have my blog and book as the end result. And yes, I do thank TC in my Acknowledgments.
There’s nothing good about this trigger related to Bannon, though. TC is just an ignorant actor. But Bannon is an ignorant white supremacist who will have a role in the White House and will have far more negative consequences than TC ever had. Bannon made a statement that the cure for mental illness is to spank your children more. Excuse me? What.The.Fuck. (oops, forgot to use $ or other symbol to fill in for the “u” for the very first time…..there’s a first time for everything, as they say). I’ve truly had it with this whole election. I’ve had it with all the hatred, misogyny and bigotry. With the cheeto about to become our President and the alt right using him as a tool to ensure there are at least 4 years of revenge for the 8 years they had to suffer under President Obama, they have populated the leadership team with known racists (Bannon, Sessions, Flynn) and ensuring that racism becomes the new normal. My passion for matters related to racism stems from my being bullied as a child for my race. But I’m not going to digress here (even though anti-bullying is my other passion)……
Note: If you’re a Trump follower trolling this blog post and thinking I’m bullying Bannon or Trump, then think again. Bullying is DIRECT harassment to them personally. I’m exerting my 1st amendment right voicing my thoughts on my own blog. Thank you very much.
<directing myself back on track….>
Bannon, just like I’ve been wishing to tell Tom Cruise in person, I wish I could tell YOU in person, if you’ve never been through mental illness yourself, then:
Shut the f*ck up.
And get educated about mental illness and how it REALLY works. It’s not mind over matter, you dimwit. Take a few minutes to read a blog post that may help you see the light when it comes to PPD. There are plenty of articles from health organizations and blog posts on the Internet for you to learn the TRUTH behind mental illness. But I’m pretty sure you won’t bother to spend a second to read anything because you think you know it all, don’t you.
Here’s where, if I could be granted 3 genie wishes, one of them would be to make all haters/bigots switch places with the ones being hated and the ones who keep insisting that mental illness is mind over matter to switch places with those who are battling a mental illness (e.g., depression, PTSD, bipolar disorder, etc.). You will learn in an instant that the logic you’ve been upholding is COMPLETELY WRONG. See my past post on this titled “All It Takes Is One Day.” One day to experience a mental illness yourself, firsthand……THAT’S ALL IT TAKES to snap you to reality and stop living in a world based on assumptions (that only make a$$es out of you).
And speaking of backwards, as women, we should not let ourselves be dragged backwards when it comes to our rights. We must stand up for ourselves and for each other. We must work harder than ever to support organizations that will help us stay on track when it comes to mental health and women’s rights, especially during the time that women are most vulnerable–i.e., before, during and after childbirth. Please join me in doing this!
If you’re a mom suffering from PPD right now, please be comforted in knowing that there are plenty of people in this country and around the world who care enough to make it a goal to help moms like you. Please reach out to me, reach out to others with blogs, Facebook pages….we will help you get through this.
You WILL get through this. I got through it stronger than ever before, and so can you!
Peace to you.